It’s already the 30th December and 2012 is nearly over. We started our own family tradition of looking back on the years photos and video clips on the eve of New years eve, so as I get all the albums and files ready I have been reflecting back on 2012.
Here are some of the highlights for me:
Shan and I got married on 12.12.12, the day I turned 31 and spent the best day with our closest family and friends at Alo Alo restaurant. We had amazing photos taken by Lesanne from Lesanne Photography, at the Quarry and a little animal park, and although it drizzled throughout the entire shoot, we couldn’t stop smiling and laughing.
The food was outstanding, the drinks flowed and we danced a lot. We also didn’t stop when the restaurant closed, we all came back to our house and carried the party on, a two day celebration no doubt!
Rocco turned one and Keira turned two this year and it still astounds me daily that they are both now small walking, talking people who make me laugh everyday. The things they say and do! Being a mom to these two is the most amazing part of my life, little cheeky mini-me’s that have the most tender and valuable hearts, they are definitely my biggest pride and joy.
This was them at the beginning of the year….and then this is them later on in the year in the car off to their first day at school.
They started Playgroup / Nursery School at Elisfanya Day Care and are benefiting from the Montessori programme and are making friends with the American children who also attend the school. I started helping with swimming lessons there twice a week and have watched some of the kids go from afraid to eager.
We moved into a beautiful new home early in the year, complete with swimming pool, tennis court, gym and staff quarters which meant finally our maid could live on the property and the kids have lots of space to play and run. Despite no borehole and good old electricity cuts we love it here and were even originally planning on having the wedding here under a marquee.
The wedding was a highlight as I have already mentioned, but planning the wedding should also be noted as everything was arranged in 7 weeks. No small feat but when we figured out what we really wanted, the rest miraculously fell into place. We had considered everything from eloping, to having a ceremony only and no reception to a huge marquee in the garden to every possible venue in Harare. Luckily we choose an unusual date, which fell on a Wednesday so nothing clashed with other people’s weddings on a Saturday in December and we could organise it at short notice. My dress nearly didn’t arrive on time, we had issues with the suits, arrival of the flower girl dress and a guest list of nearly 200 to originally consider but like I say, it all fell into place beautifully because we got the most important thing right – each other!
We got our cat, Diego, at three weeks old and we had to feed it out of an eye drop bottle when it was still a tiny kitten. He quickly became a firm favourite toy of the babies and is a very loving and tolerant cat to date.
Keira also started potty training and has made excellent progress with this. She is still wearing nappies at night and when we go out but is fine wearing her little pants in the day.
Rocco started talking and was speaking fluent sentences long before he turned 18 months.
I watched Shan get his first tattoo, done by Brad Conradie at Instinckt Tattoos and a visiting American artist added colour and detail to mine.
We hosted a fun Mexican themed night complete with vast amounts of tequila, maracas, décor and amazing food. My sisters boyfriend, professional chef Darren Gall helped put on a delicious feast of tacos, burritos and chile con carne with all the trimmings.
I organised and hosted a surprise baby shower for one of my close friends Tracey, that I have known since school and we watched her and Wayne walk down the aisle too. Several months later little Luke was born.
My two bridesmaids, Crystal and Leandra organised the best hen party ever for me and the three of us ended the night swimming at sunrise, after lots of cocktails, flaming zambuca’s, quizzes, games and Tezza, the most horrendous blow up doll complete with stubble.
I started this crazycarlysworld blog to document some of the fun, crazy and demanding jobs I do and to try develop my writing skills again. I enjoy the learning curve blogging sends me on too, I learn something new about myself and life often.
I enjoyed helping Shan realise his career potential in refrigeration again and felt proud watching him pursue this as it gave him a new found confidence and motivation.
I launched a brand new business, Cosmetic Sculpt Studio, which is a non-surgical body sculpting and facial rejuvenation clinic. I had no idea how intense starting a new business would be, but from securing a loan, to importing equipment, décor, marketing, company registration and a launch event I did it all myself and it was very rewarding. I have personally carried out treatments to a number of clients and achieved some great results in inch loss and wrinkle removal.
I developed and managed my own social media campaigns for Wedding Wise, Cosmetic Sculpt Studio and Zimbabwe Plumbing & Maintenance, a combination of family owned businesses and personal ventures. This lead to me falling into a new job within social media management and I now manage some large clients including Delta Beverages and Swift.
I started modelling again, after two years off and have been involved in runway shows (St Johns Fair and Clothing Indaba) modelling for a variety of designers including Intisaar Mukadam, Jo Burger Swimwear and Marija’s. I did two magazine shoots for my favourite Zimbabwean magazine Out Of Africa, attended a breakfast launch for Cape Camisa juice, did fun promotions for Bulldog energy drink and Barcardi and I also attended a charity golf day for Car Guard.
We visited some fun local destinations including Leopard Rock in the Vumba, Troutbeck in Nyanga and Pamuzinda Safari Lodge. Day trips to Mbizi Game park, Darwendale Dam, Lake Chivero and the Lion and Cheetah park were also highly enjoyable.
We bought a professional pool table and I learnt to play properly, despite much frustration in the beginning, the goal of becoming a hustler spurred me on. I can now hit the ball, which is a bonus and have been known to sink a few one after the other on the odd occasion.
We enjoyed visiting kids friendly restaurant St Elmo’s on a number of occasions and loved the fact the kids are not only entertained but also supervised. So we can sit back and enjoy the rest of the wine and pizza knowing they are having a ball on the indoor jungle gym.
We have met some interesting, crazy and cool new people this year too, some that come to mind are: Chiyedza Chitepo, Jan and Kayla Grobler and their little boys, Mel Carruthers, Gareth and Vanessa Jones, Judith Williams, Jackie Mgido and all the models at Model Management, Soraya, Tash, Tari, Shaylee, Moanna, Tasha, Anton, Marshall, Kathryn and Bron.
So an interesting, fun and full on year behind us, we move forward into 2013 and I am looking forward to the challenges, celebrations and successes ahead. Here’s to a great 2013!